When it comes to giving gifts, our intentions are usually the best. However, sometimes our choices can lead to unpleasant or even offensive situations for the recipient. To avoid such moments, here is a list of gifts you should avoid, along with explanations of why they may be inappropriate.
1. Funny or "gag" gifts
Although funny or "gag" gifts may seem like a good idea at first, they can be misinterpreted and come across as tasteless or even offensive. Humor is subjective, and what some people find funny, others may find offensive or inappropriate, especially in formal or semi-formal contexts.
2. Clothes and shoes
Choosing the right clothes or shoes can be a real challenge. Sizes, styles and tastes vary greatly from person to person. A coat that seems elegant to you, may not be to the recipient's taste. Moreover, choosing the wrong size can be embarrassing for both you and the recipient.
3. Objects of art and decoration
Art and decor are also very subjective. What looks like a gorgeous work of art to you may look like kitsch to someone else. Also, the recipient may not have the necessary space to display such items or they may not match the decor of their home.
4. Weight loss or fitness items
These gifts can be extremely offensive if not explicitly requested. They may suggest that the recipient needs to change their physical appearance or lifestyle, which can be a sensitive subject for many people.
5. Gifts with motivational or self-help messages
Self-help books, motivational courses, or similar items may seem insensitive because they may suggest that the person needs help getting their life in order. Such gifts are best given only if directly requested by the recipient.
6. Money or gift cards
While they may seem like a practical option, giving money or gift cards can seem effortless and lacking in personality. A thoughtful gift that reflects the relationship and knowledge you have of the recipient will always be more appreciated than a sum of money.
7. Re-gifted gifts
Re-gifting, i.e. giving a gift that you have received in turn, can be risky. There is a chance that the person receiving the gift will realize that it is not original and that it was not chosen especially for them, which can diminish the emotional value of the gesture.
8. Too expensive or too cheap gifts
Balance is key when choosing a gift. Gifts that are too expensive can put pressure on the recipient, and gifts that are too cheap can suggest a lack of interest or consideration. Find an option that reflects the value of your relationship without creating discomfort.
